All posts by Patricia James


Do you agree, love changes everything, but loving people isn’t easy?  

And just how do you love someone who is hard to love?  

Hey, does it make a difference which generation you’re talking about?  Does culture really change that much?  

Well this could be TMI or TMQ  (too much info or too many questions) at this point.

So let’s investigate….

First Train of Thought:  

Everyone has come across =

  • less than truthful,

  • the money hungry,

  • the back stabbers or

  • vow-breakers.

  • Either, we meet them casually;

  • develop a friendship;

  • see them at work;

  • or marry them.

These type people seem to cross our life-path sooner or later.  Or is it we who are crossing their life-path?  Either way we cross and they bring good or sometimes bad to us.

Below Mr. Fulghum, a prominent writer who wrote, All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten (1988), which stayed on the New York Times bestseller lists for nearly two years. Throughout the collection, subtitled “Uncommon Thoughts on Common Things”, Fulghum expounds his down-home philosophy of seeing the world through the eyes of a child said it all.  

But Mr. Fulghum used deductive strategy while comparing a boat-load of previous, knowing life experiences to come up with this statement: 

“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge.  That myth is more potent than history.  That dreams are more powerful than facts.  That hope always triumphs over experience.  That laughter is the only cure for grief.  And I believe that love is stronger than death.”  – Robert Fulghum

Do you agree with Mr. Fulghum?  

Well, let’s keep investigating …..

Second Train of Thought = Think of your family

Other people believe that love changes everything, but loving people isn’t easy ; especially and including people who are in their family.  

What about your family?  One definition of family is:


Some part of that definition also says, that people who make up your family are living, loving and laughing their way through the trials and griefs from this world.

The last thing to remember when you’re trying to know how to love the “ones in your family” who are hard to love:


Third Train of Thought: Where does the loving start? It starts with you.

What you are thinking , what you are feeling and what you are speaking will prove your love for yourself and your love for others.” – Patricia (me)

 It doesn’t matter who are the other people.  It should be so ingrained within your heart “to love your neighbor” religiously, or morally,  politically or otherwise.   

There are many different people, but your love should always be the same, if not growing stronger.  

 Let’s further investigate using this video by Brian Tracey.

[Brian Tracy is one of America’s leading authorities on the development of human potential and personal effectiveness.]

 Even if others who are crossing your life-path are:

  • looked up to, or looked down on

  • church leader, or a street walker

  • hosting the party or crashing it

  • the lender or the borrower

  • and so forth and so on.. for as many titles, categories, levels or areas you can think .

Like I said above, your love should always be unconditionally the same, if not growing even stronger.  


P.S.  If you have any comments, I would appreciate your writing them here for the reader’s  edification from your experiences, trials and tribulations.

Build a Website Guide

So you want to build a website? Let’s Get started then….

How to Build a Website Guide

Many people in all walks-of-life are using websites to enhance the needs of their users (target market). The user encompasses a gambit broader than your imagination, from fantasy to education, to business.

If you want to build your own website for free, now is the time. It’s never been so easy to build a website. You need no previous skills or knowledge. As the online website builders are so easy elementary and students are learning to build and maintain websites.

The builders are interested in many areas, such as information, entertainment, or social interaction and to transact business for products and/or services.

Here are the fundamentals…

I. How to build your own

successful website:

  1. Get a domain name

First decide on a name you want your website to go by. It’s called a “domain name” Make it catchy and easy to spell because people will find it easy to find online. Think of it as your own online address. Example: Go Daddy,

  1. Choose a web host & sign up for an account

  2. Design your web pages

  3. Get your site noticed

  4. Test your website

To check out a video by the Kyle, Wealthy Affiliate’s CEO, click here: how to create a website in 30 seconds

How to build a website guide

II. How to maintain your website

once it’s finished….

Build a Website Guide

  1. Content updates: It is a great idea to have a blog/news page. You should use this page or section of your website to keep the readers and customers informed about products, new features, new trends, and upcoming events.

  1. Update: These updates are usually placed on the about-us-page, testimonials received from clients and the staff directory.

  1. Adding new features or products

    1. This maintenance tidbit would be appropriate for a Functional website, offering subscription based services, running an online store

  1. And never leave this research tip out, because it’s always a good idea to check your target audience to see what’s changed. So, simply ask your customer’s opinion through market surveys and one-on-one conversations. It works!

  2. You can use website builders also to build your free website. My favorite website builder is Wealthy Affiliate who provides 100’s of free WordPress website templates and 1000’s of plug-ins. Plus you get a free domain name. All that you need is time and your email address.

To sum it all up…. simply, if you’ve a desire to have a website what better way to build it than with no cost to yourself? If you’ve got the time and have an email address, then you’re half way there. Why not go for it? Try building one in the next 30 seconds. {continue here to try it}


p.s. Leave me a comment to let me know how your free website turned-out.